Even if you typically prefer to react rather than initiate, consider deviating from your policy for the moment. Not only will you have significantly more influence over the matter, issue, or predicament that is currently consuming (to put it diplomatically) a fair bit of mental or emotional energy, you'll also have considerably more wiggle room or maneuverability for dealing with it than you've had for longer than you care to remember.
Since it is neither especially heartening nor energizing to go through the motions with personal, professional, or living arrangements that are no longer exactly shivering your timbers: Why not either cleverly restructure them so that they're more inspiring (or more closely reflect their original purpose)? Or, excuse them on the grounds that it would be healthier if everybody went their own separate ways and did their own thing?
You may be required to transact, interact, or commune with someone whose competence level is, er, not all that it could be - and whose ideas, put charitably, fall into the category of "wouldn't touch it with a ten-foot pole." Little will be gained, however, by indicating the inefficiency of their program (which isn't to say that you won't be sorely tempted!).
The more closely you follow the directions of your inner guidance, the better, even if this means translating words into deeds in a fashion that's starkly different from your usual m.o. The whole point here is to get you to your objective without dragging along a ton of unnecessary baggage, despite your fondness for the familiarity of certain patterns.
Since straight ahead is the only option, straight ahead it shall be. Yes, even if on some level you think that it might be nice to bury your head in the sand, ignore the pretty red flag flapping briskly in the breeze, run away from it all, or otherwise postpone the inevitable day of reckoning.
Current influences presume that you're ready to move forward with your project of choice (translation: roll up your sleeves and get your hands dirty, rather than lying on your fainting couch doing your best impersonation of a corseted Victorian suffering from the vapors.) So, if there's any part of you that's waiting for a signal to get going, this would be it.
Given that defensiveness or an attempt to shirk responsibility is the last thing that you'll want to deal with (especially since, according to your calculations, the other party is in the wrong), you may feel compelled to respond to any of the aforementioned with a few choice remarks of your own. Forewarning: it would be a lose-lose scenario.
For the record: About the only thing that can keep you from branching out and expanding your social, professional, financial or creative operation, circle, horizon, and so forth is that little voice within raising objections. And frankly, if you can hear it, then it can hear you - and you can tell it to pipe down.
Take yourself off to a quiet corner, and give yourself the following lecture: "There is virtually nothing I can't accomplish, provided I give yourself permission to go after it." Then, depending on your audience's response - over which, in this instance, you do have some influence - hunker down and get to work on your ambition-and-objective list.
Turn your fine mind to considering those actions that just might work, and with any luck, increase the momentum on the project, romance, enterprise, or creative or commercial endeavor-at-large. These planets, while still throwing off just enough static to keep you honest, are secretly down with the prospect of you making some headway in your area of choice.
FYI: These planets are essentially shipping out tangible evidence to anyone who might be remotely interested that you're not, uh, exactly up on your facts. And since nobody especially likes being busted (or otherwise exposed), the tighter your grip on the situation at large, not to mention the data being disseminated, the happier you're likely to be.
Try not to become too flustered if you can't yet get a grip on the timetable. Over the next couple of weeks you're apt to gain the perspective, knowledge, and information about what needs to happen, who's going where, and how this (whatever "this" is) is going to play out that you've been waiting for since...can you even remember when, anymore?
Irrespective of any short-term complications, the more tangible effort you direct towards a goal or ambition, the lower your threshold of annoyance over the exigencies of everyday life on the planet. Moreover, the easier it will be to see that there's light at the end of the tunnel, and that things are actually moving along at a clip.
Take (or organize) the actual, tangible, steps that permit you to move the project, program, agenda, or plan to the next level, ay-sap, if you please. Whether you are focused on it or not, you have been laying the groundwork for these maneuvers for approximately 12 months, and we're entering "strike while the iron is finally hot" mode.